False Accusations (Bonus Episode)

This bonus episode dives into the complexities of false accusations along a separate topic, the dating world, and the impact they both have on one's life.

Steven features excerpts from the content of Emily W. King, a highly regarded life and dating coach with a popular Facebook platform, to provide professional perspective on navigating these difficult situations. 

Please follow her social media pages. He offers commentary on her excerpts, and he does follow her as well.

Transcript

SPEAKER_06 0:00

You can falsely accuse somebody for one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal. You can falsely accuse somebody for one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal. You can falsely accuse somebody one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal. You can falsely accuse somebody one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal. You can falsely accuse somebody one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal.

SPEAKER_01 0:30

Welcome to this bonus episode. I'd like to play something for you. This is from Emily W. King's Facebook page. I follow her page. I find her videos to be informative and entertaining. And this just broke my heart.

SPEAKER_05 0:50

Three younger sisters accused me of S daying grape. You guys want to hear this story? I've never told it to anybody. So a long time ago, when I was probably 10, 11 years old, maybe, one day my three sisters told police that I had esteated grape death. And my mother's body. If you fail that test, you're out of the town. If you bought four polygraph tests, I'm a polygraph, bought four tests, three for my testers, one for me. Three of those tests failed. One test. I'll let you guys do what happened. Polygraph test. I don't even remember how that whole thing ended, to be honest. It was so long ago. We were all mine at different times, I'm sure it's deal. Now, why did they do that to my bad? So my sisters went to live with their father, who was different from my father. That man married a woman named Cheryl, and this woman hated my mother so much that she decided I'm going to hurt this woman by hurting her son. So she basically brainwashed my sisters and coerced them into telling police and investigators that I had done that to them. But now my three sisters never could bring themselves to apologize to me this day. I have no relationship with them. It is what it is.

SPEAKER_06 2:42

This story is wild, and obviously that man has a very good attitude about it.

SPEAKER_01 2:46

So that was the gentleman telling his story about being falsely accused by family members of horrible things because other from other family members. Well, I can't speak to their motives other than what he said, so it sounded pretty cunty, didn't it? Sounded pretty evil. So let's hear what uh Emily has to say about it.

SPEAKER_06 3:10

He's probably worked through it for years since he was so young when it happened, but this is exactly why there should be punishment for false reporting. And even when it's a minor and it's an adult that is coercing them into false reporting. That woman should have been held accountable. At the very least, it should have been seen as essentially abusive towards those little girls, for that woman to influence them that way. It's really so sad on so many levels because the girls were so young for them not to eventually come to home as adults and apologize and take that accountability even though they were children at the time. That just tells me that they were not taught right even after that point moving forward. But honestly, I'm not surprised because that's the culture we live in. You can falsely accuse somebody one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal.

SPEAKER_01 3:58

Well, Oh wait, hold on, hold on. What did she say? Let's go back.

SPEAKER_06 4:12

But honestly, I'm not surprised because that's the culture we live in. You can falsely accuse somebody one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal while that's all the time. That just tells me that they were not taught right even after that point moving forward. But honestly, I'm not surprised because that's the culture we live in. You can falsely accuse somebody one day and then the next day just live on your life like normal while that man ends up having his life potentially ruined. Thankfully, in this case, that man feels like he didn't really have any impact on his current life, but at the very least, it did divide his relationship between him and his sisters, which is still pretty devastating.

SPEAKER_01 4:54

Yes. Yes, yes, absolutely devastating. So I love liquid death. It's absolutely devastating, and yes, we do live in a culture where people can just accuse people of shit and have no accountability for what they've done. These are things I openly accuse my younger sister Angela, Marion Myers Aiken, of Prospect Hill, North Carolina in uh Caswell County. Like, this woman has made serious attempts to destroy my life. Did they do damage? Yes. If you throw a missile at a building, it's gonna do damage. But like, if you like are looking for the part of the building that does the least amount of damage and you throw a missile at it, it's gonna still be able to be fixed. And it just seems like all the missiles Angela's ever thrown at me throughout the years have been missiles that have hit the worst spots of the building. They've are the best the spots of the building that don't do that much damage, you know? It's just to me, like, she's not really looking for the bullseye, or she's just bad to try and hit it. Um it be like that. But like, see, I follow Emily W. King because I'm trying to do better in relationships, right? I don't want to fuck up the next relationship I have. I've had way too many sexual encounters where I am feeling to the point where over my life it makes more sense to just not worry so much about hiding from my past as much as I am doing better for the future. So, like I well, I have no problem being emotionally available for a woman if they can handle it, which most of the time they can't, and that just really is what it is. And well, I have no problem putting like my 50% in, which is also something some women have issues with. They want a man to be the provider, but like they have nothing to offer you, and you're just like, what? And so I start to wonder, well, am I worth anything, you know? And I realize, wait, I am. I'm fucking awesome. I I I just made a lot of mistakes in relationships before, and and like, you know, if you don't do those things, then you'll be alright. So, here's what I'm getting at. Like, Angela accused me of awful shit beh completely in a manner where I couldn't confront her. Like, the first time she does it, we've talked about it, it was on the back of a 50C that was eventually dismissed. Like, my Angela wasn't allowed to file again. She had to file a 50B. She wouldn't, she was the court denied her application to try to file a second 50C. Um. It was laughed out of the courtroom, and she was they were berated for wasting the court's time. Uh, I remember that much, except for when I was on the phone with Brian and he's telling me to get the fuck out of there after it was dismissed. Um, I think we talk about that in Dismissal Prejudice the first episode. I'm pretty sure we mentioned it in the first episode. First episode or the second one. It's one of the two. I can't recall, but we we talk about it, and you know, Brian was like, you need to dip. There's several times where Brian's like, you need to dip, and I dipped. And uh. The back of that 50C was awful. It accused me of being a monster towards my kids, towards her, their entire lives and her entire life, call me a pathological liar. All these, all these awful things, right? Like awful fucking shit. And the way I see it, you gotta be held accountable for that fucking bullshit. Well, while this might be a story for the girls, for Chiara and Olivia when they get older, in case something happens to me, so the truth is out there. I mean, somebody, somebody, there's one person that has a password, the username and the password to this, and he listens to it pretty regularly. You know, you know who you are. If something happens to this, you know, he'll hopefully he'll keep it running. I mean, I can't speak to what anyone will do, but if someone makes a promise, like then I'm cool with that. It's not like he said, no, I won't do that. So we'll keep moving. I just try to make a joke because it's like this whole thing is just so depressing. Sometimes you just gotta laugh. But Emily W. King. Okay, she's got videos on uh Facebook and social media. She's a dating life coach here to show you the truth. Um but like sometimes there's there's videos that really hit me. And that one really hit me. So this is a video that says the caption is more proof that children need their fathers, okay?

SPEAKER_07 9:49

If a um if a man and wife raise a child, they're less likely to end up in jail. But they have the same statistical chance as children raised by just their father. Girls with no fathers in the home have lower self-esteem. No, no father families are more likely to be victims of abuse, especially with single mothers. Children with high BMI more often come from fatherless homes. Here's something fathers have the fittest children. That was really interesting to me. The more opportunity the child has the interval with violence of father, the less likely they are to commit to have contact with the juvenile justice system. Okay, another way to say that is men and women who are incarcerated, the population of the prisons mostly encompass followers. Now, here's something that no one else has mentioned, which I think is cool, and I don't really say this eloquently. If a man of wife raise a child, they're less likely to end up in jail, but they have the same statistical chance as children raised by just their father.

SPEAKER_08 11:00

Okay? I want you to know that I really, really hope that you win the bottle that you're fighting, that you don't tell anybody about it. I want you to know that I'm here for all of it. And I know you don't you probably don't tell me everything that you go for what I'm here for it whenever you need anything or whatever you need to follow.

SPEAKER_05 11:28

You know, I feel like a lot of men don't get that kind of love or like those intentions from their significant others.

unknown 11:36

So I really appreciate it.

SPEAKER_08 11:50

Yeah. So I mean, we're a team, you know.

SPEAKER_01 11:56

So this hits home for me too. This is also on Emily's page. Look, I I I'ma tell you right now, I've been a shitty boyfriend, okay? I mean, I like I said, I never put hands on a woman. I've I've not called them names and been abusive. There's been a few times where I've screamed at women because I let them push my buttons, and I I'm gonna say that was my fault. I ain't gonna I ain't gonna get on the whole bandwagon of being like, oh, you know, women are abusive, blah blah blah, because my experiences are unique, you know, and that is what it is. However, what I will say is that Angela made every attempt to turn us into a family where I A didn't have my fiance anymore, which that happened, and B, um, that I uh That I uh wouldn't be involved in Kiara's life, which that did not that did not happen. Um I understood at that point that when Monica and Brandon got together, there was no chance of me in a relationship, and I figured, well, I might as well at this point um not fight for the relationship. And clearly the only thing is point is fight for the kids, but then when she started taking Olivia out of my life, and the last time I see Olivia is at the Holly Hill Mall of um carnival. You wanna talk about heartbreaking, like and of course, fucking like I've talked about it. Fucking Angela had to be there. Stupid bitch. Like, I just wish that stupid fucking cunt would have had her own kids and fucked off away from mine. Like, her and dad are like the biggest fucking paradors of stolen valor when it comes to children. And Sue, I mean, well, Sue couldn't care less either way. She's just like all she's such a cunt. Like, these like these Sue is like the worst of people, like, put into a fucking oopla oopla looking chocolate factory running motherfucker. Like, she's just the worst. Um. Like, I remember, like, I was reading a restraining order that one time. I remember she put it in there that I told her I was a drug dealer. I must be a really bad drug dealer because A, like, I'm telling people, and B, I had no fucking money. Like, if I'm selling drugs, where's the fucking money? Well, there was no money because I wasn't selling drugs. I never told her I was a drug dealer. She's such a lying piece of shit. But again, going back to what Emily says, uh, or was it Emily who said it, or the the Whoever yeah, it was Emily. We live in a culture where people can just fucking say what they want and not face accountability at all for what they've said. Look, I had a guy investigate me and talk to people who were allowed to give a false narrative, but wouldn't be placed in the same room with me, and like I know some of the people that he talks to, but the bottom line is sincerely that these people were allowed to give a false narrative of my life, and on top of this, um the sl- So there's there's some truth in there's some slander also, and that's okay, like it's not like I'm gonna be calling people to court. I'll just embarrass you on this fucking podcast, tell the truth, and let you take me to court if you want to, and we can play that game. I don't give a fuck. But what I will say is that dad, Sue, and Angela were given the opportunity to paint an incredibly false narrative. You know, where I was told things like, oh, everyone's afraid of me, and I'm violent and hit my dad and shit like that, and I've never once fucking been violent towards a family punching holes in walls. They even said that shit in the restraining orders. Never punched a hole in a wall in my fucking life. They're making that shit up. Um They just they they they're they're coming from a place where they think that people are gonna believe everything that they say because of their stature, and dad's all I'm a war hero, and I was in the military, and I love the government and Trump. I suck Trump's little pathetic Adderal infested cock every fucking night. That's my father. And that's me jumping over a fucking mountain into the Porsche. Still driving 100 miles an hour. Oh, let's see here. Um hang on, let me uh find out how much time I got before much time I got before I uh dip off here. Um we'll stop at the gas station here. Gas is 421 a gallon in Grand Theft Auto 5. Ain't that some shit? Gas is 401 a gallon in fucking I just hit a guy with my car getting to the fucking gas station. And he's running away. That's good. Alright. Okay, so the reason this episode even exists, this is a bonus episode. I'm gonna label it as such. I just felt like I just felt like really that Emily may ha uh showcases a lot of things about dads, but like she cares about people, and I think she's calling out fellow women. Because dating sucks. Like, women will get put in their place verbally because they act a fool and think it's abuse. Men just have boundaries and we're tired of putting up with dumb shit. Like that kind of stuff. I see it all the time in Are We Dating the Same Guy, Raleigh Durham group. I see it all the fucking time. It blows my mind the dumb shit these women post. Thinking that, oh, this is abuse, that is abuse. And like, I correlate that not only with things in the this Venn diagram, right, of the Emily is talking about, because she's like, well, that is that's bullshit also. But the fact where she talks about how we live in a culture where you can just accuse people of shit and no one has accountability. Well, that's what Angela dad and Sue Well, that's what Angela did. Angela did this behind my back with Monica in a van when I was in California. She did this on the back of the failed, dismissed 50C that she couldn't get renewed, so she had to resort to a 50B and couldn't lie about that and say dumb shit on the back of it. Like, oh man, I'm gonna tell you, like, it people don't realize, like, the infinite fucking patience that I have. That I like they should be thanking me for just being so patient and not getting fucking as nuts as I wanted to get. Like, I held back a lot. It just uh It just blows my mind. Um it hurts, it just hurts. It hurts that people can just do this. Um I just hope that the next woman that I get to date like realizes that like I'm trying. You know, I got boundaries and I'm not gonna put up the bullshit, and I don't wanna hear about like all this whole, you know. I don't wanna hear about this whole chast lifestyle you'd be trying to live in your forties and fifties because you you know you were a whore in your 20s and 30s. I don't care about your past. Shouldn't care about mine, like you don't have HIV, right? Or Herpes, okay, then we're fucking fine. Like, I just think they need to hear this.

SPEAKER_03 19:51

A man that's doing things on his own, that's not worried about anybody else but himself. And play with his feelings.

SPEAKER_01 20:37

That's what the fuck is the fuck is wrong with men. Sorry, what the fuck is wrong is having to listen to that stupid fucking background music? Jesus left.

SPEAKER_00 20:47

Most men will only experience unconditional love from their mothers, and some of us don't even get that. Most of us have never even felt appreciation or respect without conditions or hidden intentions. We don't know what it sounds like to hear, I see you and I'm proud of you. I'm glad you're here. You really make a difference. Yet the expectation is to constantly be displaying the strength and love that the world is hesitant in conveying. We're expected to have a thick skin that can judge if it turns to a hard cell. The first step of being a man is ignoring the home. Because, yes, boy, you're going to start with. Start of attention, start of affirmation, start of love, start of being told that you are enough. Step two is being a man with comfortability with replaceability. You are only as good as you are useful. You are only as valuable as you are needed by others. Should there ever come a day, boy, where you fail to provide everybody with a smiling face, then do not be surprised when they say all men do is take up space.

SPEAKER_08 21:43

Where the hell do y'all be finding these men that are obsessed with you? Good fathers?

SPEAKER_04 21:48

But guys will agree. One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. You'll find us if you go dumpster diving with the disguarded. You'll find the best boyfriends and husbands on the island of Miss Bit Broken Hearted. What he wants more than a broken heart.

SPEAKER_02 22:42

Oh, it's crazy. I can finally say for myself, I don't want a relationship with anybody. I'm okay with coming back home to myself every day, going to work every day. I ain't losing to sleep, staying up on the phone with nobody. I ain't gotta worry about providing for a female because some of your females ain't working for my own. Because you don't give back to the man that's working his ass off to pay the bills or give you what the fuck you want. Why you get your nails done, he's cutting his fucking hands, getting to chill. You know what I mean? It makes no sense because you gotta be worthy of a good man. You gotta be worthy of someone who's willing to break his fucking back to give you everything he never had. Okay? So I'm content with being alone. It's fucking crazy how some of y'all strive and kill yourselves in a relationship that are not.

SPEAKER_01 23:34

Yeah. And that's where kind of where I'm at. Like, I get that I made mistakes, but see, I I I've talked about it before. I ain't gonna self-flagellate over that shit. Alright, like people have a choice. They can either keep reliving their past, you know. Which is one reason I hate Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous because these motherfuckers keep reliving their past. It's like well, I guess we don't have to grenade this bitch. Bye. Um I feel like we we get stuck in our past, and because of that, you know, we're not allowed to like whereby society might say, oh, you can't have a girlfriend when because you're you fucked up relationships in the past, you don't deserve to do it anymore. And while I get that, like, if you're in a car and you get a few DUIs, the judge is like, you shouldn't have a license anymore, you're fucking crazy. Um honestly, I feel like uh that shouldn't be the shame for you know love. So the way that I see it, uh Emily W. King, you are doing the Lord's work. I don't know if you'll ever hear this, but I follow you on Facebook and uh thank you for what you do. I mean, you're not just putting women in check, you're putting dumb men in check also when they do stupid shit. And uh I just appreciate you very much for what you say. Um This is just a bonus episode. It's uh I mean, like, I I there's like I talked a little bit about Angela and, you know, the bullshit she did. Which again is the etymology of this whole thing, you know, her running her fucking mouth about shit that didn't happen is what started this whole shit. The two catalysts being Angela and Ethel Dixon. Ethel Dixon was the one who started it with the court shit when she lied to me, saying she was gonna keep shit private, but she put it in her fucking notes and damn board subpoenaed them, and well, here we are. Drug tests later, you know, disposable income, $900. We've we've talked about this. Anyways, uh I hope you enjoyed the bonus episode. Um uh if you don't, go fuck yourself. And girls, uh, if you're listening to this, I guess it's just relative because you know, Danny might have fucked up love. But just because somebody messes up with love doesn't mean you don't have another shot. But we also have boundaries, and we have things that we're not gonna put up with, and both of you need to have that in your life. No matter what. You have to have boundaries. I love you both. Alright. Here we go. Let's uh get ready for work and uh knock the day out.